The Step Parenting Excursion
I am fairly new to step parenting and most of my experiences do not result in “successful”
parenting tips
! I’m more in tune with unsolved challenges.
I am committed to being a role model to my step children as a Christian parent, as is my husband, but the problem lies in the children’s rejection. Most of them are not accepting the “new family” very well, much less household rules and
discipline
. There is a lot of rebellion going on in our home. It is nothing like I expected it to be.

I am desperately seeking Christian parenting resources designed for a merged family…
As I find useful resources, I will definitely share them with you. Perhaps it is easier to merge a family when the kids are little, but we approached the task during the
teenage parenting
phase.
Things I have learned about merging families…
Sorry, the list is so short!
-
Christian relationships
are important to merging families
- Kids will try to interfere with your
Christian marriage
- A united front of the two parents is necessary
- Expect rejection and rebellion from both your kids and your step kids
- Pray with your spouse and the kids a lot
- Read the Bible and other parenting resources
- Engage all members of the family in Christian Fellowship
- Think before you act
- Treat all kids equally
- Talk with your spouse a lot
- Be honest about your feelings
- Consider Christian counseling for the whole family
- Don’t lose hope
Is merging a family easier than single parenting?
When I was a single parent I thought that it would be easier if there was a father figure in the home. After all, a home with a father and a mother is God’s design for families.
Neither merging families nor
single parenting
is easy. Both present unique challenges that nobody is naturally prepared for. I am not familiar with the reaction of young children to step parents, but most teenagers are not prepared to respect
parental authority
from someone who is not their natural parent. At any rate, respect for both parents in the home is necessary along with mutual respect of the children, thus comes the challenges!
Are you pulling your hair out and desperately seeking help yourself?
Step parenting is a developing concept for this Christian parenting website. Here are some articles and resources that you may find relative to your challenges of merging families…
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