Stay at home moms who are suddenly faced with raising their kids alone definitely need encouragement and support. Single parenting is quite a challenge. Believe me, I have been there.
My greatest concerns included providing financially for my children, providing them the support and learning opportunities that they needed (both of my children are boys), as well as taking care of the house, yard and car which included lots of maintenance that I just wasn’t used to doing. In addition to that, I was also
homeschooling
my children, which ended at the point when I had a stroke and couldn’t do it anymore.
Can you still be a stay at home mom if you are a single parent?
I can honestly tell you, “Yes! You can.”
I was actually working at home when I first got divorced. I always wanted to be a stay at home mom, but previously I didn't think it was possible, until I came across internet-based businesses.
I know, the work at home industry is filled with false opportunities, but I have been working at home for almost a decade as a freelance writer and business consultant. On my business website, I wrote an article about
legitimate online work about home opportunities for stay at homes moms
. Reading it might be beneficial to you.
I use
SiteSell
services to create my websites. This video will help to you understand the concept of building websites for a living. Be sure and watch the videos from work from home moms, they will be inspiring to you.
You also might to take your God-given gift of mothering and open a registered daycare center in your home. The possibilities are endless.
Get your kids involved in church programs…
It is extremely important that kids have both a male and a female Christian role model. Getting your kids involved in church programs will usually ease your fears. My boys joined
Royal Rangers
and they learned so many manly tasks that I couldn’t have possibly taught them. My stepdaughter and stepson are involved in youth groups that couples pastor. They have certainly had an influence on their lives.
Now, let’s get down the nitty-gritty…
Home maintenance and auto mechanics! There are a lot of do-it-yourself instruction books that can save you a lot of money when the toilet clogs up, the water heater goes out, or your car won’t start. Messing with such things may not be in your nature, especially for previous stay at home moms, but doing it yourself can be very beneficial to a mom working on a tight budget. If you can’t quite figure it out, contact your church to see if there is anybody that can help you or browse
Ark Almighty
to see if a church in your area has a listing. If not, why not present the idea to your pastor? It can be very helpful to single stay at home moms, widows and the elderly and it is a great outreach opportunity.
Here are some do-it-yourself manuals that might be helpful...
Home Improvement 101 helps amateur home owners with maintenance projects and unexpected repairs. Whether it's a leaky roof or a stained carpet, this easy to follow guide will help you protect your most important investment. It includes a month-by-month guide for tracking routine maintenance and tips from plumbers, electricians, and carpenters. Paperback.
The most up-to-date, complete, and useful guide to home repair a homeowner can have! With more than 350 projects and 2300 photos, virtually every home repair challenge is covered. New in this major revision are important chapters on: choosing and using hand and power tools; diagnosing and correcting home safety and health problems; and creating an maintaining a home workshop. Special features:
Reflects the latest building code changes
Shows how to test for radon, lead, asbestos and water contaminants
Workshop section includes helpful reference tables and charts for hardware, lumber, and other building materials
Includes helpful building projects for workshops, including building utility shelves, workbenches, and sawhorses
A Homeowner's Journal for compiling your home's improvement, repair, and maintenance history in one convenient location
This newly expanded edition now includes an additional 32 pages and over 200 photos. This comprehensive home improvement book covers a broad range of common repairs, from fixing a leaky faucet or replacing a receptacle to making major roof repairs. You'll find sections on plumbing, electrical wiring, windows and doors, walls and ceilings, floors, exterior home repairs, home security and maintaining HVAC systems. Readers will also find information on contemporary products not covered in the original edition, such as pressure-assisted toilets, heat pumps, and remote security devices such as motion sensors and keyless door locks - many things that stay at home moms need to know.